Why Happy Life Happy Wife is Really Bad Advise

And what you can do instead

Tonja Vallin

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I often have unhappy couples sit on my therapy couch about once a week and the wife will say in frustration…. doesn’t he know the rule, happy wife happy life?

I smile, and nod and then look at the man who stares blankly back at me in defeat.

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Tonja Vallin

Tonja Vallin is a marriage and family therapist intern in Nevada. She has her own private practice specializing in adults and kids with trauma.